To the fuzzy haired scat head who broke my heart

They were a dick and you'll find better......................

I would love to respond to this, but I'm reasonably certain I'll get banned if I say what I want to, and then I'll have nowhere left to go except back into the loving embrace of WoW.  And nobody wants that.

Therefore, as a helpful alternative, I would like to extend to you a modicum of pity.  You're not the only one who has felt this, and it will leave you soon enough.

Think of it this way: Either they break up, or he accidentally impregnates her with his demon, scat-headed spawn, and is forced to live out the rest of his days in misery, with nothing but his mistakes to console him.  Wouldn't that be a greater victory?

(I had to sit on my reply before hitting post as well, but I'm not sorry for the blunt tone that the post still has.)

I know you're upset, but posting crazy like this doesn't really fit an example of good reasons to stay.

Regardless of this impulsive post, did you ever talk about how you felt before "having lots of passionate sex, spending lots of time together"?

The harsh reality is that is that it is possible to be physical with someone without having any real feelings for them, and if you didn't address that, then he shouldn't be expected to know what you want.

Being bitter and acting vengeful won't really get you anywhere and essentially leaves you standing still while he's moving on. So the best option is to move on, do something to make yourself feel better for the immediate, improve yourself in any way for the future and protect ya neck next time. You don't want someone who doesn't want you anyway.

Rave not rant.

Try www.fmylife.com/

Quoted for truth.  How do you think me and my stepdad make it work?

C'mon. It's not like you've never given a guy that very same line. If you haven't yet, you'll have many chances. I challenge anyone to say they've never said, or been told, the friend line.

Anyway, don't confuse his (or your) lust with love. Passionate sex? Not necessarily fueled by love/close-to-love. You just have to enjoy the act with the person.

Though you didn't give the details of the circumstances, I'm going to guess what was up: You two spent some time together, hooked up, spent more time together, hooked up more, then he bolted when you thought you had something special. See, this is what happens when two people get familiar without any confirmation of the situation (you probably weren't officially dating for most, or all of your fun time, am I right?). One person gets attached, and the other person sees the wiggle room: a friend-with-benefits that they can drop without guilt because they are not "officially" together. It happens at least once to everyone.

Is person A a jerk/"not-nice-lady"? I'd say so. Is person B also responsible for the situation for not asking if they felt the same much earlier (you think you can tell, but you only see what you want to see), for not pushing to be "officially" together, and for assuming that good and frequent sex means they're into you and NOT just sex? Well...... Person B needs to feel like a victim (but they are somewhat of a victim). It's the only way they can interpret a situation that slipped from their control.

Whether you were officially together or not, next time, if you want to see how much some random guy really cares about you, try not having "lots of passionate sex." It's not a good tool for that sort of stuff.

They really ought to make a Rant channel.